Joy and Confidence

I'm passing on some great advice for the day...

"Confidence and joy.
It’s not about orgasm
Pay attention to your partner
and Enjoy the sex you’re having.
That’s really all the sex advice I have to offer.
Oh, and also lube. Especially silicone lube. But that’s really it."

Emily Nagoski

Erotica - Advice for beginners.

My friends know that I have a passion for writing and consuming erotica in my journals - erotica in the form of stories, poems and drawings.  Any sexual fantasy worth having is worth writing down. However, if you want to write erotica that people other than just you can read and enjoy, you must take a less self-indulgent approach. Here is a great post for anyone who wants to learn how to write erotica...

How to Write Erotica: Some Advice & Resources for Beginners